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Jewish Singles: Goodbye Mr. I Don’t Know

Well, I spent the last 4 months dating a nice guy…a good guy…probably the best guy I’ve dated in a long time.  Only problem was, we weren’t on the same page.  I obviously know what I want and who I am and he, sadly, doesn’t have much of a clue…hence, the nickname Mr. I Don’t Know.  The signs were there from the start, the confusion, indecisiveness, etc.  I didn’t exactly IGNORE them, I just kind of put them on the back burner, hoping that I was wrong or that if we fell for each other, he’d become a MAN over night.  No such luck.  He had so many endearing qualities that I was drawn to, but when all was said and done, they weren’t enough to make things work.  I really struggled with the decision to end things.  I wanted to make sure I gave him and us enough of a chance.  I’m also not used to being the one to end things…it sucks, man!!  It may be worse than being the dumpee…you question if you did the right thing or not and it doesn’t help matters when the guy is a good guy.  But, I mustered up the strength and did it.  And we were apart for 6 weeks.  It was supposed to be sort of a “time apart thing” to see if any clarity would come.  But, nothing changed 6 weeks later when we saw each other at a comedy show that we had previously bought tickets to.  For me, it was the closure that I had been waiting for.  Though we had a blast at the show, I felt nothing for him romantically.  And hearing on his end that he still “didn’t know” and thinks that maybe he’s “just not ready” but “is that stupid that I’m not ready?”  etc etc etc…..just re-affirmed that I did the right thing.  I need me a MAN who has his head on straight and knows what he wants!   I walked away from that night with a newfound strength and belief in myself.  And I vowed to never ignore my gut again!!  Woo Hoo J

All my best,


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